SARAH B. HECHTMAN
Partner
A compassionate mediator and highly skilled litigator, Sarah is committed to helping clients resolve their family disputes in as peaceful and dignified a way as possible.
Sarah has been a matrimonial and family law attorney for nearly two decades. Acknowledging that “one size does not fit all,” Sarah helps clients resolve their matters in the way that works best for them, whether through litigation or negotiation.
Sarah is experienced in handling complex divorce cases involving substantial financial assets as well as highly contested child custody issues. She frequently negotiates pre- and post-nuptial agreements and has represented clients in numerous family offense, child support enforcement, and grandparent visitation proceedings. Additionally, she leads the firm’s fertility law practice, assisting intended parents, gestational surrogates, and biological donors in navigating the legal issues implicated in the use of assisted reproductive technologies.
Sarah’s clients have described her as an “oasis of sanity” and “the silver lining” in an otherwise unpleasant situation. She believes that her appreciation of each client’s unique circumstances enables her to effectively tailor her representation to individual needs. Her natural understanding for varying perspectives makes her a compassionate and effective mediator, as well as a formidable advocate.
Sarah gained valuable litigation experience as a prosecutor for the New York County District Attorney’s Office where she specialized in cases involving domestic violence and sex crimes, and as a civil rights lawyer prosecuting class action cases on behalf of children.
Sarah’s commitment to the welfare of children and families led her to train in alternative methods of resolving family law disputes. With extensive training as a mediator, she mediates matrimonial cases for the court system, as well as privately. She is a trained Collaborative Lawyer and a member of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals, an interdisciplinary group of legal, psychological, and financial specialists committed to the resolution of family law disputes outside of the court system. Sarah is also a certified parenting coordinator, a role in which she assists parents in resolving their disputes outside of court.
Sarah is an adjunct professor at Brooklyn Law School and Pace University Law School, where she teaches courses on conflict resolution and the intersection of psychology with law. She serves as a mentor and career counselor for students at her alma mater, Harvard College.
She lives in Westchester County, has two sons and one dog, likes to spend her free time outdoors, walking, hiking or playing tennis, and listens obsessively to true crime and political podcasts.
“Sarah Hechtman is an extraordinary lawyer and person. It’s hard to imagine a better advisor, advocate, and friend throughout the divorce process. She is crystal clear in explaining the details and numbers as well as the big picture. After listening carefully and empathetically, Sarah then somehow transforms a big mess into an efficient, solution-oriented plan. I can always count on her responses to come fast and offer exactly the practical advice I need.”
“Sarah is incredibly knowledgeable about divorce law. More importantly, she is compassionate and calm during an otherwise difficult and tumultuous process.”
“Sarah helped us with a particularly pernicious family issue and was a skilled, dedicated, and tireless advocate who fought and won on our behalf, taking up our cause with the same vigor as it if were her own family.”
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Columbia University, JD
London School of Economics and Political Science, M.Sc. Public Policy and Administration
Harvard University, AB, Psychology
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New York
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American Bar Association
Family and Divorce Mediation Council of Greater New York
New York Association of Collaborative Professionals
New York State Bar Association
New York Women’s Bar Association
Westchester Women’s Bar Association
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Mediation (Basic training at Center for Divorce Mediation, 2003; Advanced training at Center for Understanding in Conflict, 2018)
Collaborative Law (New York Association of Collaborative Professionals, 2005)
Parenting Coordination (Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, 2023)
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2023 “Divorce Redirected: It Doesn’t Have To Be Contentious”by Leslie Stewart Sullivan,Louisa DeRose,and Sarah Hechtman | WMHC
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2025 “Shifting Sands: May a Court Properly Order the Sale of the Marital Residence During a Divorce’s Pendency?”by Sarah Hechtman and Annie (Garvin) Van Genugten | New York Law Journal
2024 “Grandparent Rights’ Statute Should Be Modified to Deter Meritless Claims”by Sarah Hechtman | New York Law Journal
2024 “Reviewing Attorneys: The Tightrope Walkers of Mediation”by Louisa DeRoseand Sarah Hechtman | New York Law Journal
2023 “ADR in Family Law: When is it Suitable?”by Sarah Hechtman | Lawyer Monthly
2020 “My Reproductive Freedom Has Been Critical to My Life Choices”by Sarah Hechtman | Ms. Magazine
1991 “Physical Attractiveness of Face and Voice: Effects of Positivity, Dominance, and Sex”by Sarah Hechtman | Journal of Applied Social Psychology
1991 “Teacher Gender and Nonverbal Behavior in the Teaching of Gender-Stereotyped Materials”by Sarah Hechtman | Journal of Applied Social Psychology
1990 “Nonverbal Behavior and Gender as Determinants of Physical Attractiveness”by Sarah Hechtman | Journal of Nonverbal Behavior
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2024 “From Psychology Major to Family Law Powerhouse: Sarah Hechtman's Unconventional Path to Success”| Beyond the Bar Podcast
2024 “Adjunct Professors Bring Straight-From-the-Field Experience to Our Spring Curriculum” | Brooklyn Law School
2022 “Legal Planning and Assisted Reproductive Technology” | The Village Law Firm
2018 “Process Choice: The How of Divorce Settlement” | Divorce Dialogues
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Super Lawyer, 2024-2025
Top Lawyers in the New York Area, The American Registry, 2024
Awarded “Lawyer of the Year,” Dispute Resolution by Lawyer Monthly Magazine, 2023
Recognized by “Best Lawyers” for Family Law, Collaborative Law and Mediation
Martindale-Hubbell Peer AV Preeminent Rating
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