KARA M. BELLEW
Partner
Kara guides clients through complex divorces and contentious custody battles, whether through high-conflict litigation or the mediation process.
Kara is an indefatigable advocate for her clients. As both a seasoned litigator and a trained mediator, Kara is uniquely suited to help clients resolve their divorces in a way that is right for them, whether in litigation, through a negotiated settlement, or providing consultation during mediation.
Kara has been a partner of Rower LLC since its start in 2017 and has been practicing exclusively in the field of matrimonial and family law since 2005. Kara began her career in family law at Sanctuary for Families, Center for Battered Women’s Legal Services, where she learned about the complex nature of domestic violence and sharpened her commitment to client-centered advocacy. Kara managed a high volume of contested matrimonial and family law cases that required her to appear before the judges of New York and Kings County on matters including orders of protection, custody, visitation, and contested divorce.
Kara is a skilled and tenacious litigator, having tried numerous custody and financial cases in the Supreme and Family Courts of Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Westchester. She also successfully argued before the Appellate Division of the First Department in both 2021 and 2022, the latter of which was a case of first impression with the Appellate Division affirming the Supreme Court’s determination that Kara’s client could relocate without a hearing.
Kara recognizes that certain clients may benefit from a less adversarial process, grounded in collaboration and conducted outside of a courtroom. As a mediator, Kara works with couples by helping to facilitate their communication and assisting them in reaching an agreement that feels fair to both of them.
In May of 2017, she attended the National Family Law Trial Institute, an intensive eight-day trial skills training course, in Houston, Texas. Kara returned to the National Family Law Trial Institute in May 2022 and completed an intensive course in advanced custody litigation.
Kara has a strong commitment to pro bono legal services and volunteerism. In June 2023, she joined the Board of Directors at Sanctuary for Families. She twice ran the New York City Marathon to raise money and support for Sanctuary for Families, and she takes on pro-bono cases on behalf of indigent victims of domestic violence. Kara frequently lectures at the Domestic Violence Institute at Northeastern University School of Law, her alma mater, and she has mentored and hosted Northeastern law students as part of the law school’s co-op program.
Kara lives in Westchester County with her husband and children. In her spare time, Kara loves playing tennis, practicing yoga, and spending as much time as possible on a beach.
“Kara was extremely responsive, leveraged her experience and expertise in complicated custody situations, and brought in the full resources of her firm on key issues. For example, Kara enlisted Alyssa Rower for parts of my case which, in partnership with Kara, was highly effective. Kara genuinely cares about her clients, puts client interests first, and has impeccable character and ethics. Kara captained me through the most challenging part of my life securing a new, sustainable path forward for me and my family.”
“Throughout my case, Kara never wavered in her assessment that I was on the right side of the law and would prevail. And I did. To be clear, Kara did not just tell me what I wanted to hear. She helped me understand how the circumstances of my case, combined with the case law, were heavily in my favor. Kara’s command of the law, strategic thinking, client advocacy, compassion, and honesty are but a few of the reasons that she distinguishes herself.”
“Kara Bellew is a phenomenal lawyer. She is smart, savvy, and tough, and she helped me to walk away from a terrible marriage as intact as possible.”
“Guidance, professionalism and grace…I could count on her to guide me through the process with honesty, integrity, respect, and always in good faith.”
“When you hire Kara, she represents you to the fullest and deeply appreciates that your life and the lives of your children are in her hands.”
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Northeastern University, JD
Boston University, MSW
St. Joseph’s University, BA, Psychology
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New York
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New York State Bar Association
New York Women’s Bar Association
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Parenting Coordination (Association of Family and Conciliation Courts)
Mediation (Center for Understanding in Conflict)
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Super Lawyer, 2023-2025
Super Lawyers “Rising Star” 2015-2016
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2023: “Weaponizing the Law” | Moderated by Kara M. Bellew
2020 “Law and Domestic Violence Seminar” | Harvard Law School virtual panel
2019 “Orders of Protection” | by Kara M. Bellew, New York State Bar Association: Family Court Practical Skills CLE
2018 “How to Handle a Custody Case Part I and II” | New York State Bar Association: Family Court Practical Skills CLE
2017 “Smart Women Plan Ahead” | Kurzman Eisenberg
2017 “Motions and Pre-Trial Intervention in Matrimonial Practice” | New York State Bar Association
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2026 “How 'Factor 14' Made Domestic Violence Matter in Divorce Property Division”by Kara M. Bellew | New York Law Journal
2025 “Beyond ‘Nicholson’: A Step Forward for Protecting Victims of Domestic Violence”by Kara M. Bellew and Anita Rojas Carroll | New York Law Journal
2024 “The Unraveling of Sean Combs: How Legislation from the #MeToo Movement Brought Diddy Down”by Kara Bellew | New York Law Journal
2024 “SCOTUS Takes an Important Step in Securing the Safety of Victims of Domestic Violence”by Kara Bellew | New York Law Journal
2018 “The Unexpected Upside of Getting a Prenup” | Psychology Today
2018 “Substance Abuse in Divorce Is as Complicated as You’d Think” | Psychology Today
2018 “Fostering the Child-Non-Custodial Parent Relationship is Key” | Psychology Today
2018 “MeToo Movement: Misconduct and Divorce” | New York Law Journal
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2024 “The Hidden Face of Abuse: How One Lawyer is Redefining Domestic Violence” | Beyond the Bar Podcast
2023 “How To Properly Manage Your High-Conflict Case (Including With Your Own Attorney)” | Guest Appearance on “Been There Got Out” Podcast
2019 “How Domestic Abusers Weaponize the Courts” | The Atlantic
2018 “How Your Divorce Can Have Psychological Implications”| Psychology Today
2018 “Angelina Jolie is reportedly driving a wedge between kids and Brad — a divorce lawyer says that's dangerous”| Yahoo! Lifestyle
2018 “How to Make Custody Less of a Battle, According to a Divorce Lawyer” | Fatherly
2018 “A Family Lawyer on the Challenges Facing Domestic Violence Survivors Seeking a Divorce” | Pacific Standard
2018 “5 Reasons to Get Married That Have Nothing To Do With Love” | Brides.com
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Sanctuary for Families, Board Member
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